• dating mistakes 27.09.2007

    Ladies I have got to tell you, men do not get the subtle hints you think are overly obvious. A recent dating experience left me completely bewildered, and once I spoke with some of other girlfriends, they all agreed that the situation was a great big hint to take her to the bedroom and remove the rest of her clothes, but I didn’t get it. Now I am thinking that she must of thought I rejected her, and I am sure she is thinking about a million reasons why she was rejected, it’s probably hit her self esteem, and all of this because I a was unsure if she was hinting or just flirting and teasing.

    Of course I thought for a moment that she may be drunk and ready to go all the way, but I am too much of a gentlemen to take advantage of a drunk girl, even if we had been out several times, and all the indicators were that she is interested in me. Call me old fashioned, or neo-gentlemen, but I don’t want the first time to be a drunken mistake that is easily forgotten. Is it too much to want the first time to be a sober experience?

    Back to the hints. Ladies if you are dropping hints left and right and the guy you are with seems completely oblivious, he is.  I have now had several talks with many different women about hints they may or may not drop on dates, and I am completely amazed. To think of all the hints I have been given and unknowingly rejected all these years. I’m sure there are many more too. Somehow we need a women’s hint book so guys can get a clue. This would be a bestseller no doubt. It’s my idea first!

    Sometimes you just can’t depend on hints,many guys will be unsure will tend to lean on the side of caution and not take a hint for what it is, even if they do catch it, as many of us are so scared of rejection, that we’d rather keep waiting for a sure thing than misread an obvious hint. If you want intimacy, sometimes you are going to have to initiate it. Many of us men out here would really appreciate it.

    Posted by Steven @ 11:39 pm for dating mistakes |

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